9 deadly words used by woman Part 2

Saw the word ''part 2"?

It means there is a part 1 *haha, what a stupid statement*

Man, you have to know the first 4 deadly words than only can read this post.
Equipped yourself with some basic knowledge first to have some strategy to use! Cheh~!


Skip the nonsense and I shall proceed to the next 5 deadly words.
P.s: Sorry for continue the post after sooooo long break . Forgive me due to my packed schedule of exams and practical.

SO, The fifth word would be

That's okay
That's NOT OKAY at all. And the moment you heard this from a woman, you have to start worry!

That's okay is not used to comfort you but for herself.

She is most probably telling it to herself, not you.
"That's ok, That's not a big deal at all. Why would you mind?" *At least I, as a woman T^T had this self talk session to myself.*

I used my case as an example. *shhhhhhhhh, dun tell Monkey. =P*

Last time when I first drive to KL, he promised that he wouldn't let me drive alone.
 If I have no company, he would come KL just to drive back with me.
 As usual, Boys never seldom remember and keep their promise or the promise that so called not that important.
At first, I wasn't really care about he didn't come all the way from Penang to KL just to drive back with me, because I think it's unnecessary. I think I can drive alone *and I did*, he worried so much AT FIRST.
马路如虎口, driving in highway is dangerous.

I was kinda enjoyed he was so worried, haha. 

Then I told him I seriously have no companion and will drive back on monday.

He replied: Then, be careful ya.. *some sweet talk that I think it's not proper to post it up. =P*

I was shocked because I tot he would at least say ONE time that wanna come down to KL.
Then ONLY I, be the good lady, REFUSE.

Ok. That's not part of my expectation. So I replied

It's OK 

IT'S OKAY!!!! I SAID

Luckily he sensed this before I got exploded. =D
So, he give me thousands reason and reason behind reason and sweet talk.
And nothing happened.

See?! Who said girl is difficult to handle?!
If you sense it earlier, you definitely can avoid quarrel.
We are still considerate souls. =P

So, now you know what to do when your girl said it's ok. 

6. Thanks

This word can mean totally different in different tone. If you sense pure sarcasm, *and you better know it is sarcasm*, you know the cold war begins.

What to do?
Can't do much, in my opinion.
Because they won't listen at that time, they walled themselves up. Give her sometime, give her a hug, give her a kiss is a more clever act. *yeah, she will push you away, then please proceed to the Silly-face-only-shown-to-your-girlfriend*
my case:
I can never get angry at Monkey for too long. I also don't know, when I saw his innocent face that purposely made *maybe not, it's naturally like that*, I laughed! At least he try his best to cheer me up. Ain't it's great to have someone to cheer you up at this moment?!
Grateful. =)

P.S: If no sarcasm felt: a woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint, Just say you're welcome.

7. Whatever

It's a woman's way of saying F*ck you

It's not my word, SO I have no comment on this. 
But I have a coursemate who is a guy say this often..
So, I'm thinking, does this apply to guy also?
Haha, wtf.
But high chance! *I'm serious!*

So, in his case,
He said it when the answer is not what he want or what he is expecting, or something that he don't even care about.

So, I guess it's not a so deadly words compare to others.  

8. Loud sigh! Haih

This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misundersrtood by men. A loud sigh could mean she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time and arguing with you about nothing.
And it also could be a sign for you to ask for more details about what troubling her.
and you may get NOTHING as answer. Don't give up!!
Refer back to Part 1:nothing

9. Don't worry about it, I got it.

another dangerous statement,meaning this is something that a woman had told a man to do several times, but us now doing it herself.

this will later result in a man asking"what's wrong?"
for the woman response refer to nothing again.

My scenario:
I asked Monkey to think where did him put my make-up pouch, and he ignore/ 敷衍 me because he was plating tetris *WATEVER TETRIS! =P if you got the joke *
So, I said the deadly words.

And it works! Wohohoho...
He called his mum and blah blah blah... and I got my make-up pouch.

And I feel sorry for making him to do so.. I was so inconsiderate at that time. Overwhelmed with guilt.
*Hello, my friends are crazy over tetris and I understand at that critical moment, they rather not talk. If it's gossip, it depends on how "heavy" it is. haha*

Does fish really eat rice dumpling?

I get excited for festival not really because of I know the meaning of the festival, but mostly, it's because

FOOD 

Yes. 

Every festival has different kind of food and you will automatically link the food with festival, vice versa. 

You don't believe it? let's try it out. 

Link the following with the correct answer. 

Get what I mean? when we talk about festival, it's the festival that matter more to us.. *at least me.., oh, shame on me* 

The moral value of the festival also very important! *said out of guilt*

So, the most recent festival is Duan Wu Festival , 端午节.

To summarize the reason and history how Duan Wu Festival arise: 

1. It happens in China long long long long time ago
2. There is a Chinese man named Qu Yuan who is very loyal to his country. 
3. The king doesn't listen to him, prefer those useless Pegawai Pangkat Tinggi that talk sweet talk. *Normal la, just like drama, King won't listen to patriot's opinion/suggestion*
4. Qu Yuan got kicked out and suicide by jumping off the reef. 
5. The news spread just like how fat the gossip spread, *forgot to mention he is admired by the people*.
6. So they make rice dumpling so that fish eats rice dumpling in stead of eating the corpse/living Qu Yuan
7. They also paddle out on boat and play drums so that it would scare fish away.
8. So, now we have race of dragon boat
9. and rice dumpling to eat!

If you can't imagine how dragon boat race looks like, the picture bellow illustrate well about dragon boat race. 

 But I don't think they wore like this last time lo.. =P

So, What makes me curious about the history above is

DOES FISH REALLY EAT RICE DUMPLING?! 

P.s: rice dumpling is dumpling with sticky rice as ingredient and cover tightly by bamboo leaves

So I decided to conduct an experiment! 

Did I tell you that I got Captain with me now?

So, here's the experiment. 

So, Captain, are you ready? Do you wanna eat this? 

Captain: No idea what's that.  

Let captain has a good look before I throw it in.. 

Captain doesn't seem interested at all. I open it up somemore! 

 I was thinking to throw it in actually. But, ...... 
Ok.. I admit I chicken out. 
I am worried about contamination with oil, so I hold this idea back.  

Haha. Paiseh la~! 

So, I made another experiment. 

I open it up, and put it near, to see whether Captain interested not? 

Yes, it's very oily! 

 Coming?!

Swim away. 

Captain is not interested at all. 

And the body of Qu Yuan wasn't found. 

So, I will be extra careful when I feed Captain. 

A letter to myself and a self talk

I wish. I wish the negative memory can be deleted.

I wish that I wouldn't care so much

I wish all that never happened. 

I wish I could let it go. 

I wish I wouldn't recall any of that moment. 

I wish I am not a attention seeker. 

I wish I can hate you. 

I wish I can just forget about trying to be friend with you. 

I wish you can take my jokes. 

I wish I have higher Eq.

I wish I never see the bad side of you.

I wish we are not the casualty of the incidence. 

I wish I don't need to be pretend nothing happen before.

I wish........

Don't remind me. Because I am a coward that don't want to recall any of that. 

You are the biggest dark spot in my life. I admit. 

I'm not sure whether you find me the same not. 

But we know, we don't treat each other the same like last time anymore. 

As I not even dare to do so. 

I hate being a baby. 

I hate being sensitive. you are also sensitive as well. which make it even worse. 

-Chia Lin-

Let's go for Buffet. Food Buffet? NO, IT'S CLOTHES

Yes. You didn't see it wrong.

I'm not talking about food buffet. It's CLOTHES BUFFET 

Heard of it? 

I'm not sure did you heard of it not. Because it's my first time to hear this.  

It looks so interesting to me! 

As usual, before I decided to go for any sales, I survey! 

Just like having exam, Have to be prepared before you going, not to make yourself disappointed with the outcome.  CHEH~

So, it would be at 23rd of June, 2012, which is tomorrow. 12.00-6.00pm

Oh my god. I have another paper on Sunday. *Yes, I guess my batch is the only batch has test on Sunday.*

Where: Alt. Space 27-G Block J, Jaya One, N0. 72 Jalan Universiti, Section 13, 46200 Petaling Jaya, Malaysia

Don't know where is it. you have 3 option: 

1. owned GPS

2. bring a friend that has GPS

3. Google map *google knows everything*

But that are some details that wasn't listed in the picture. 

Yes, It's rm50 per bag. But, it's not the bag that you bring. 

They would provide the bag to you. The zipped plastic bag. 

How big is the size?

9 inch X 14 inch.  

So , it's roughly like this. 

If you are thinking to squeeze 20 clothes in it, it seems impossible to me, or maybe you are good in packing stuff in luggage. 

So, what's in this beg?

Left=>  4 X dresses, so it's rm12.50 per dress only! *salivating*

Right=> 1 x dress, 4 skinny belts, 1 cincher, 1 pair of stocking = RM 7.14 per item 

Not bad right. I believe you can squeeze some more if you are good in it. =D 

What if the bag break? 

woah, you must have tried really hard in squeezing yeah. 

ok, you will not forfeit everything but a penalty will be given. 

What's the penalty? 

No idea also. =D 

What clothes would be SERVED in this buffet?

All clothes are brand new, mostly like the clothes selling in blogshop. 

Good thing is they let us have some sneak peak photos of the clothes selling. 

Clothes seldom look nice when it's wrapped in plastic and bag like this. 

I hope they have a lot more luggage of clothes. It's buffet time! =D 

 I'm a Polka dots girl. I love Polka dots. Even my pic at the side bar is the picture of me wearing polka dots.
If I go, I wan that. =D yeah, the one on right!

Not bad, right? 

The latest info from the authority, they do have some Men's tee. But it's more to ladies apparel 

So, it's a buffet for ladies. =D 

What's the size?

Free size. and no trying. *why would you waste time trying, grab as much as possible!* =P

What if I didn't get anything? can i get refund?

Sorry to tell you no refund. So, MAKE SURE YOU GRAB SOMETHING. For bf, for friends, for mummy. 

Another thing you have to know before you decide to go, 

you have only 30 mins to choose what you want. 

there are 30 people per session, and each session would have only 30 minutes. 

So, it won't be too crowded. 

If you are very semangat wanna go, kinda sure you wanna go there as early as possible, so that can grab good stuff. 早起的鸟儿有虫吃！

Actually, you don't need to worry about that. 

Why?

Because they will be restock at each session, randomly! 

Great and bad news, right. 

But there are some stock that's limited, so, it depends on your luck to spot it not! =D 

sounds more like lucky draw to me. haha

Oh yeah, almost forgot! They do give lucky draw 

and the lucky draws item looks very nice to me! 

SO, wanna go for it not? Your decision! 

Kindly reminder. The bag must be able to  zipped when exit from shopping area. 

To know more: visit their website   and do drop by their facebook page to know more details!  

When your Ex didn't send you a birthday wish

UPDATE: 

Happy Birthday or Happy Belated Birthday to you! You were directed here, I guess most probably you are facing what I had gone through! And it's nothing wrong for you to care much about birthday wish from your ex! It doesn't mean anything for not receiving his/her birthday wish, your life is still awesome! Babe, you deserve someone who remembers your birthday! 

Keep calm, and stay Awesome! 

I hope this post would enlighten you. 

Yeah, I tot my Ex would send me a birthday wish. 

Yeah, 2 of them didn't. 

I tweet about it in tweeter.

"Random question, Would you care if your Ex didn't send you a happy birthday wish?" 

Some may ask, ''why would you care, you have Monkey with you now, why would you care about the past? ''

If this question rise in your heart, then you should continue reading. 

So, I asked around. 

Some answers that i got:

1. I don't know, this is my first one. 

*sweet, and this makes me jealous. Girls, you are lucky* 

2. Of coz I care. He is my Ex leh. 

3. No, I won't/ But I would be happy kejap if I got the wish from him. 

So, would you care? 

I do. I care about the fact of Ex forgot my birthday. 

*again, FB plays the role in reminding people who's having birthday and it's really convenient that just a click, then you can make a wish. Most of them is Happy birthday, add a smiley face ^^ or =D or =). 

some even goes shorter, like HB (I wouldn't know that it means happy birthday if it's not my birthday) still thank you for the wish because not everyone would wish people happy birthday even it's just one click, like me =P, does it make those receive my birthday wish feel better? haha. ) *

Why do I care?

I care because Ex not just random people.

even though our relationship doesn't have a happy ending, we didn't get to married each other like what we promised.

When the relationship ends, the only thing you remember is those promise that he made.

It sucks when you actually cried for the promise that didn't turn out to be real. *who didn't, tell me*

Most of the guys will come back and make another promise that they won't break your heart. 

Haha, you think I'm going to believe you? It doesn't work anymore. 

Yeah, we were so in love last time, and even though we broke up but it wasn't like I hate you, you hate me.

Frank moment: I did, but it didn't last long. 

Because how do I hate you if you are the person that I liked before, and it's neither you nor my fault that our relationship tak jadi. 

But in the end you have a special seat in the bottom of my heart. 

For the fact you,

teach me how to take care of people,

how to love people, *eeee, i don't know, this word makes my hair stand*

how much privacy and space to give

the bro-mance (this is taught by Monkey who I am still in love with) 

brings laughter into my life

brings me around

teach me DOTA *and I still don't like it* 

spend money on me *yala, tak kan he didn't spend money in the realationship mah*

teach me to hold my pride

teach me to walk better *Monkey don't even care, so I walk like last time now, he just laugh when he sees me walk. He said, it's ugly and cute and funny. That's love that he gave me* go ahead and puke! 

teach me to be strong when I am sad and also during break up. 

teach me to be firm with what I want

and the list goes on.

So, how can you see Ex as a random person or even worse, stranger? 

I can't agree with those that who block any single way to keep in touch with Ex. 

I believe that Ex shouldn't be treated as a stranger. They knows you better than stranger at least.

And I always wanna be friends with my Ex. 

So, I got depressed when I didn't received birthday wish from my Ex. 

Am I the only one tot that we are still friends? 

And another favourite answer that I got from. 

 if he din,its BETTER! it means he's already moved on, and you should get rid out of his love. move on too, with style. =)

Cool right? But I think she tot I still miss my Ex. lol. 

I had already let go since long time ago. 

If in her words, they didn't send me birthday wish because he moves on. *not because of hatred seed* 

Then, I feel glad. 

To all the Ex. Thanks for being my Ex. 祝你们幸福！  

And to Monkey, I hope you are the Mr. Right!

That's his hand on my shoulder. *shy*

   

UPDATE
So, finally I got the happy belated wish from the Ex. which is like 4 days after my birthday.
Anyway, I got the wishes, and I guess I'm not the only one wanna be friends.
So glad that they are living great now, one has girlfriend already while another looks like has his passion in his current work.